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Dr. Cam Caswell | Why Control Fails and Connection Works with Teens

Dr. Cam Caswell | Why Control Fails and Connection Works with Teens

Update: 2025-04-23
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Dr. Cam joins us to discuss parenting teenagers and why efforts to control them often create more distance. She explains how control can undermine trust and why focusing on connection leads to better results.

We discuss the difference between respect and obedience, and how letting teens say “no” builds confidence and self-trust. Jesper shares his shift from being a “parenting by volume” dad to being more present and connected, and how time made the biggest difference.

Dr. Cam describes how many dads step back from parenting teens because they feel disconnected or uncertain about how to relate. She talks about why focusing on influence, not authority, helps parents stay close to their teens even in moments of conflict.

We also talk about how small moments—like asking about your teen’s interests instead of their grades—can rebuild connection when time is limited.

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Website: https://www.askdrcam.com/
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Dr. Cams podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-teens-with-dr-cam/id1524209790 


🗓️ Recorded April 23th, 2025. 📍 Budapest, Hungary


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Dr. Cam Caswell | Why Control Fails and Connection Works with Teens

Dr. Cam Caswell | Why Control Fails and Connection Works with Teens

Cecilie & Jesper Conrad